Wednesday 30 December 2009

How Green was your Xmas?

Xmas is done for another year and, as we wait for January to begin, its a good chance to reflect on how green Xmas really was.

Every year we get a little better and every year we think of new ways to make more changes.

This year the whole family got in on the act, throwing away past worries of appearing a skin flint and embracing the giving of presents that where handmade or even second hand.

I gave several second hand books, DVD's and toys that I'd come across in charity shops (or even my own book shelves!) over the last couple of months. My Kids got a handful of "stocking fillers" that came from the 5p box, cars, little action figures, card games.
My mother and sister both received jewelry from a local jewelry maker and I even got round to making some handmade chocolates!

My own family also came up trumps and under the tree for me was a box of homemade chocolates and some homemade bath bombs from my sister, wrapped in brown paper she had hand printed, she really put me to shame with that, the parcels looked beautiful.
One of my presents from my mother was a ball of wool (nylon!)and some knitting needles, and a couple of days after Xmas she showed me how to cast on, knit and cast off. By the time she had left I had knitted a (beard shaped!) dish cloth as practice and am now working on my first scarf! Baby steps I know, but this gift will enable me to make gifts for others, as well as for myself!!

My parents also gave the kids their entire collection of star wars DVD/videos and their Harry Potter collection! How trilled were they!

I make the same promise every year but NEXT year I want to aim to hand make or buy second hand the majority of peoples Xmas gifts. I can't tell you how much more special my sisters bath bombs are and how excited I was to see them, store brought ones would have barely warranted a glance before being put in a cupboard in the bathroom.

I hereby resolve to start preparing for next Xmas now! To knit gifts and learn new skills, to box chocolates when I make them so they get to the recipient before my mouth!

Present wise I think we really had a getting back to basics gift giving which surprised us all with how very much more we seemed to get for much less money and resources.

What did Santa bring you?

Monday 21 December 2009

Merry Xyulesolmas everyone!

I hate the Americanism (sorry American people!) "Holidays". If you have something specific to celebrate this time of year be proud to say what it is!!
I'm not a Christian so I rarely say Christmas, preferring instead to use the more secular Xmas (something my staunch Salvation Army Grandparents hated with a very un-Christian like passion).

So here it is though...whatever you like to call the winter celebration.

Today was Solstice, the shortest day of the year, and in celebration of that we did what we have done nearly every year, we put up our tree.


We get our tree from friends who have acres of baby pine trees and have invited us for the last two years to help ourselves.
I find cutting our own tree odd in the sense that when you are outside they all look like teeny tiny scraps that will look like the ugly tree none of the other trees wanted to play with but when you get it home you realise that its grown 5 inches and bushed out like a fluffed up hen.
Sure its not the fullest or the softest (the piercing "Ow!"'s that came as the kids decked our trees sharp branches seem to be another Basford tradition) but it seems more down to earth, more level headed than a genetically modified "ideal" tree or worse the plastic perfection of the false one!

Anyway, next year we plan to buy some baby trees of our own and add a little neutral carbon to our festivities.

The tree wasn't the only exciting thing to happen today. This afternoon our new puppy came home!!

Merle (which means blackbird)is a tiny fluff of Yorkshire terrier and seems perfectly happy to come live with us, has fallen in love with Jenny the vegan collie (who is trying to stay aloof but stuck her nose through the pen bars every time he squeaked)tried to make friends with Biko the cat (who hissed then went to lie by the fire and pretend nothing had changed). He had an alert hour and some dinner then went "plop", all tuckered out, fast asleep, been a long day for a 'lil pup.
Like a new mum I am left wondering if I should wake him soon for some more play so he doesn't wake at 2am crying.

Anyway, Xmasy wishes aside here's a preview of what the (almost) car-less family will have to offer in 2010!

Gardening
With more emphasis on what we eat and a lot more planning than in previous years we hope to bring you more insight into our self-sufficiency(ish) lifestyle.

Home
As we are finishing some home improvement and starting some new eco-home plans this coming year we will have lots to share, starting with how we fit a family of 5 in what is basically a 1 bed house.

EnvironmentWe have been talking about it forever but we hope 2010 will be the year that we do something with our land. A radical re-think of how we keep our horses and a plan to plant coppicing woods and "old" woodland on our acreage means lots of plans, debates and pictures on how we get on.

Cycling
Now that we are set up with a trailer the bikes should be back out in force once the ice lets up for a few days.

There will, of course, be much more than this but these are some of the main points I want to cover in detail over the next 12 months.
The (almost) car-less family is very excited about 2010 and what it will bring and hope all our regular readers (and new ones of course!) will come along for the ride with us!

Thanks for stick by the last 5 months!





Love, Kelly, Kim, Ollie, Owen and Alfie xxx

Monday 14 December 2009

Power Off weekend diary.

Well, last night at 11pm we turned the power back on.
All of a sudden it seemed very stark and noisy.
Amazing how you get used to candle light and the sound of silence as the fridge sits mute in the corner.

On the whole we had a great time. It was, as I thought, a time for reflection and a time to remember how to use that amazing of organs, the brain and its capacity for imagination.


Our table centre.


FRIDAY
As though the house felt it needed to purge before we turned the power off it decided to give us a mini disaster.
The ball cock in the hot water tank did its yearly shrivel up and die routine, so that a whole tank of hot water gushed out of the overflow and into the garden. The trouble is our tank gets too hot and the ball cock can't cope and implodes. So with much swearing Kim climbed the ladder into the attic and fixed it with the spare (of which we keep a few).
Disaster averted!
Had we not had a spare this would have put a huge dampener on the weekend. The water would have had to have been turned off, along with the fire!

SATURDAY
Having breakfast by candle light was an interesting enough diversion for the kids so that for a whole hour they forgot about the fact that the DVD's would not be playing nor the computer switched on.
Kim got up early to light the fire so that the kettle was singing for breakfast and the room was warm and cosy.
We were out for the morning with the Bennachie Access Team on a PR exercise so were not back in the house before lunch.
Lunch was soup (from the freezer the night before)and some fried garlic bread all made on the log burner.
As we also had the electric off outside an effort had to be made to get the horses done in the daylight, so by 4pm the big horses were out in the big field and the ponies were in the steading eating evening hay. All that had to be done in the dark was to give the ponies their late night hay and Kim used the wind up torch for this.
Dinner was a half cheat. cooking by candle light.


I made a tofu Thai curry on the log burner (lots of cashew nuts!)and Kim went to the chip shop and brought us all chips to go with it ;)
After Dinner we set to teaching the kids card games, something we've never done before, but we now have snap masters and blackjack apprentices! Kids drawing by candle.

Usually the kids have a story tape on the stereo when they go to bed, but instead I suggested they play a story game and for about half an hour they bandied a made up story from one to the other, all three of them making a contribution and laughing at the silly scenarios they deampt up.
Me and Kim read the newspapers by candle light and drank hot chocolate and chatted for a while and then at around 10pm went outside to see if we could see any meteors which where meant to be spectacular over this weekend.
We saw a few but apparently the best ones where just before dawn. Even reading was possible!

SUNDAY
Sunday was a little harder. Owen in particular whined for a while about not being able to watch a film, and mooched around the kitchen all morning.
Oliver and Alfie played outside but Owen was BORED!
He perked up again when Ollie came back inside and played some snap with him though.
Ollie went to a friends house for the rest of the morning and I took the littlies for a walk with the dog. A huge puddle in the stubble field we walk in had frozen solid so they spent a happy half hour playing ice skating!
Lunch was oatcakes and fruit (apples, melon and grapes)with home made hummus. Usually I blitz the chickpeas with a hand blender so it was interesting to make it the traditional way..well maybe not traditional, I used a potato masher!
Came out just fine though and got me to thinking that a potato ricer would do a better job.
That afternoon Kim took Ollie off on a mountain bike ride and the littlies played with the train track (a toy that has been gathering dust for a few months) while I tried to make sure that all the school clothes were dry and ready for Monday.
I did hand wash a basin of socks and hung them on a rail over the log burner to dry. Fine for small stuff but don't much fancy hand wringing out jeans!
All afternoon (since just before lunch) our dinner of veg and bean stew had been bubbling away on the logburner and an hour before dinner I made some yummy herby dumplings and popped them on top!
Sunday night is a bath night, so the littlies had their first candle lit bath. An interesting side effect of this was that unlike the usual shouting and splash fest that is bathtime for Owen and Alfie, they instead lounged int he bath like Turkish lords, relaxing in the soft light. Even the mankiest bathroom looks like a spa in candle light!

After their bath they snuggled up on their Daddies lap while I read the first couple of chapters from the Terry Pratchet book The Hogfather.
A great extra was a more relaxed evening, much calmer and quick to go to sleep AND sleeping for better and longer!
Ollie played a few more hands of blackjack which really made him use his maths skills, so we plan to do much more of that.
He had said to Kim, while out on the bike ride, that he wished we could do Power Off EVERY weekend!

All in all it was fun and informative. I think Sunday nights could become "Power Off" nights so the kids could really wind down and rest well before school on Monday and maybe we could have a PowerOff weekend once a month (maybe leaving the fridge and freezer on)and candles are going to become a part of our regular life.

So, we didn't miss the fridge, but then the porch was so cold there was no need for a fridge. A long term plan could involve building a cold room on the north side of the house to use, especially in the summer months, then there would be no need for a fridge at all.
The freezer had little in it anyway. The only thing I wanted to keep frozen was a pack of diced rabbit I brought for my parents to have at Xmas. I packed iceblocks around it, wrapped them in bubble wrap, two jiffy bags and then two layers of tin foil. It stayed frozen!! So I don't need to buy anymore!
I want to experiment more with preserving food in jars rather than freezing it, we very rarely use the freezer for anything other than the odd tub of non-dairy ice cream or some frozen peas so its worth looking into alternatives.
As well, we want to look into making a "summer home" down the end of our big field, a small cabin or yurt or even a couple of caravans! Somewhere we could "live" in the summer holidays and at weekends so that we were'nt using the electric in the house.

The only dissapointment was the solar light. I don't think it ever recived enough light to charge it as it really wasnt day light till gone 9am and by lunch time it was getting dimpsy again, but we'll hold onto it and see what happens in the summer!

We had a great time, hope you did too! And I hope next time you all join in!

Friday 11 December 2009

Getting ready to power down for Power Off!


We here at the (almost) car-less family are very excited about tomorrows Power Off weekend.In a way it has almost (almost!) eclipsed Xmas as THE topic of the moment in our house. Even a trip into town to buy the last of the children's presents turned into a buying-things-for-Power-Off trip!

In preparation for tomorrow we have brought candles, a wind up torch and a solar outdoor light. The theory behind the light being that it MIGHT be useful to bring inside at night and have in the bathroom so the kids have a little safe light if they get up in the night. It remains to be seen if the solar light will get enough daylight to a)fully charge and b)last into the night and not be run down by midnight. Be very interesting to see how all these little things work, and that's the main reason we are doing this experiment, to give us the opportunity to think away from the norm, to look at the power we have and wonder how else we can implement it.

The weather at the moment is looking good for the weekend and so I hope that most of the daylight hours can be spent outside. We will in any case have to make sure that wood is chopped and horses done in the daylight anyway, but the plan is to make sure the kids have enough opportunity to blow off steam before dark.

Tomorrow will be tricky for us as we will lose some of our precious daylight due to running an event for the Bennachie Access Team tomorrow, but with some thought it should be fine.

The inside, dark, activities will be Xmas orientated, so paper chains, card making (and writing) and snowflakes will be the order of the day.
We also have cards, noughts and crosses, hangman and even i-spy if it gets too rough!
To honest though I am not planning every second for them. They can draw and play with their toys without electric lights so they can be encouraged to do that as well.

So today I am spending washing clothes so that school clothes will be ready for Monday, baking so we have some "treats" and tidying up, so we don't fall over in the dark!

I'll be taking pictures and keeping notes and will be back online on Monday!
Have a great weekend!

Sunday 6 December 2009

Asthma. A pain in the arse if I'm honest.


Most of you know that I have asthma.
This is not something I had as a child but looking back I have suffered on and off since my late teens. Coughs that wouldn't go away and left me fighting for breath, but back then I was pretty fit (and a lot slimmer) and so got away with it.

It wasn't until I was 30 that I was officially diagnosed with adult onset asthma.

Now I won't lie, this sucks royally at times.

Just when I was getting the kids all to school and had time to look after me I end up stuck in the house not able to breath.

So far I have had a handful of "real" attacks (most of my asthma is like having a none productive cough, so you can't talk for any length of time or at all if your walking).
An attack is frightening. I always thought you wouldn;t be able to breath IN but its not like that at all. Its breathing OUT that is hard.
So you breath in a lungful of air and then you cough but nothing comes out, and soon your skin is prickling like someone is sticking you with needles all over as you try to force air OUT of your lungs so you can take another breath.
Before I was diagnose I found myself sat on the edge of the bath one night coughing non stop. I couldn;t breath, my vision blurred and went dark at the edge's, I thought "Wow! I'm either passing out or dying!" but wasn't too upset at the time, all I could think of was breathing.

Asthma happens when the hairs in your lungs get inflamed. You then produce mucus in response to this and this is what makes it hard to breath. Your airways narrow and you feel like you are drowning. You can read about it and see diagrams HERE.

People have different triggers to asthma from perfume, cat hair, dust, pollen, pollution, colds and viruses and also food/ drink sensitivities.

For myself I know that too much coffee doesn't help me, dairy is a BIG no no, even a weeny bit can cause an attack if other factors are in place. Also if I have a cold I will at some stage soon after get an asthma attack. I also get wheezy in the summer when the broom is in bloom and funnily enough so does my horse LOL.

I thought I was ok this time.

Since my last asthma period in March 2009 I have been on different meds, got healthier and fitter, eat more organic food and cycle and walk lots. I thought I had it all in hand.
But week before last I had a cold...a really little sniffly one...hardly registered. And the last couple of weeks I'd slipped into the habit of a coffee or two a day rather than herbal teas, and THEN on Monday I brought some chocolate that I thought was milk free but turned out to have butter milk in it (it was right next to cocoa so I had thought it said cocoabutter milk which is ok!).

With all those triggers lined up I didn;t have a chance of avoiding one. My meds, which at least kept me from a BIG attack haven't helped much, so I am back up to the Doctors to chat about it.

Trouble is I REALLY don't want to go down the road of Oral steroids.

At the moment I am on an inhaler that opens the airways (to use as and when) and one I have to take twice a day which has a stronger airways opener and also a steroid to strengthen my lungs. Its a fairly mild one but I didn;t want anything higher.

Looking online I think I need to go for some vitamins. Some extra vit C and D some Magnesium and some B vits, that way I can help stave off any colds. Also I need to be extra vigilant about checking labels and also avoiding coffee, especially if other triggers are present.

If anyone has any ideas or sites to share that can steer me down a more natural route please share them.
Your the best ;)

Saturday 5 December 2009

Climate change, which side of the fence are you on?


I get asked this question from time to time and I still don't have an answer.

Yes yes, I'm one of THEM that sits on the fence and shrugs and says "I dunno.."

Infuriating ain't I ;)

The trouble is that I am not a scientist, or expert. I am a normal person. The only input I get is from what I read in newspapers, magazines and online and these articles are nearly always from someone well embedded on their side of the fence, so its impossible to have an objective view.

One journalist put it very nicely the other day.

"We do not need to "save" the planet. Earth is will get along just fine no matter what happens. What we are worried about is saving the human."

And this I think hits the nail on the head.
After all the Earth was survived being a flaming ball of volcanic gases and it has survived being almost completely covered in ice. A little climate change is not going to register on grander scale of the earths life. If being on fire was the same as having flu then climate change (although devastating for us)is bearly a pimple on the side of Earths nose.

Sounds like this puts me in the doubters corner?

Well it doesn't.

The trouble is with the people who dismiss climate change is the general air of "Well I'm not going to stop burning live pandas to run my car."

Humans who think like that are like the intergalactic version of the rough estate family who throw their rubbish out the window and onto the tiny patch of grass outside. They don't care, it doesn't effect them so why bother.

The trouble with the whole movement is that a few years ago it was "the" thing to do.
Every newspaper and magazine had a "green living" column, every supermarket rushed out to make "ethical and green" products for the masses to consume. No middle class dinner party was complete without talk of the organic free range caviar fed chicken they were eating, and the solar panels they were having installed.
Then the recession came and all these ideas went out the window and showed the majority of people for what they are, fashion victims.

Take a good look around you.

Notice how all the ethical products in your supermarket have been pushed to a small corner of the store? Notice how that columnist you enjoyed reading about with her green themes and clever ideas has disappeared?
Now middle class dinner party talk is peppered with last second trips by air for half term ski trips and how cheap chicken is at the discount supermarket down the road.

So you see, a lot of the media concern a couple of years ago was little more than glorified advertising. An attempt to milk the green cash cow and get the chattering classes to spend money on their products to pretend they where saving the earth.

For the record, we are on LESS money than a few years ago but still manage to live more ethically than many people wh have pleanty of spare cash!

So where do I stand?

I stand in the clean up camp.
I re-cycle, I shop second hand, I don't waste anything, as a family we strive to leave as little a footprint as possible.

Humans are going to have to become more flexible.
Why do people think its acceptable to live somewhere like Las Vegas and still have green lawns? Why would anyone heat their pool to bath water temperature all year? Why do people think the heating in their house should mean they can walk about in t-shirts like summer.
THESE are the people who will never change and who's in-flexibility make life miserable for all of us.

Man's wish to live wherever he wants and then mould it to what he wants it to be are killing all of us. When the Apocalypse comes with the Las Vegas housewife turn on the sprinklers, shut the door and crank up the air con?
Probably.

We used to be nomadic people. We used to keep a few vital possessions and move with the seasons. In a nutshell farming sealed our fate and turned us into something more than animals.
I guess some would say this was a good thing, but the future of mankind? I don't know.

In the times past when humans migrated seasonally, land was given the chance to recover. Think about it. If all the Zebra and wildebeest grazed only one part of the savanna for a year it would be a desolate dust bowl, possibly lost forever.

BUT!!
But with our modern technology we have all sorts of tricks to keep land working for us!!
We can concrete over tracks so they remain dry, we can spray our fields to make them yield high....but.

Modern farming has a lot to answer for.

Here is an example.

Over the last few weeks we have received an unprecedented amount of rain. Seriously soggy weather.
Our fields (where the horses live) are old pasture. We have never ploughed them (and that's 9 years we've been here) and they possibly were not ploughed for as much as 20 years or more before that.
The fields next to us have been ploughed yearly forever.
Not only that, but for the 9 years we have lived here they have even grown the SAME crop!
This is farming at its most "modern".
No year left fallow, no crop rotation, no year of sown grass for cattle grazing..no no no..this is how farmers did it in the OLD days.

So back to the rain.

The fields that belong to us coped well with the rain. Whenever there was a break the solid happily sucked up as much excess water as it could.

The fields next to us though remain (still!) in parts like a network of lakes and streams. The ground has been so compacted and so heavily sprayed that there is not a thread of life in it. If you pop a spade into our field you come away with a bucket of worms, pop a spade into the ploughed fields and all you get is a hole full of water.

They are as barren as a dessert.

Do I think man has made global warming?

Yes and no.

We certainly haven't helped. Global warming has hap pend on its own for many centuries, this time we hurried it along and are now furiously trying to undo it.

I for one will keep living like I give a damn and do my best to prepare my family for the future.
One in which we should, maybe, be prepared to adopt semi-nomadic lives again.

Tuesday 1 December 2009

Which ethic should I follow today?

The trouble with making the choice to be compassionate about more than one thing, whether it be animals, the environment, children in sweat shops etc, is that some days you find it almost impossible not to run up against one while trying to do the other.
For example today we drove to town for two reasons, 1.The bus is more expensive (really!) and 2.We had a lot of things to do (and carry)and would have missed the bus.
So we immediately run up against problem number 1. We wanted to hit the charity shops but knew what we wanted would be too bulky to get on the bus. So is charity shop the way or should we have stayed home, spent MORE money and brought it new?? But why buy new when there is a cheaper 2nd hand one??

Breath!

The next thing is the goods I brought.
I was after two things in particular cushions and puppy stuff.
Well I fell at many hurdles there.
One of the cushions I brought was not only silk but filled with duck feathers!! A double anti-vegan whammy!
Then I found the perfect tiny collar for my new puppy...but in leather.

I could have course have brought both of these items in ethical materials, even eco-friendly materials, but they would have been new...manufactured for ME, using up carbon and resources and ....Lots of other stuff!!

So I think I have to draw a line.

You can drive yourself NUTS trying to be a super hero for everyone.
I think that buying from charity shops absolves me from a few nasties. I am in effect buying someone elses "rubbish" Things they no longer want and they COULD (and many people DO!) have thrown these items in a landfill rather than gift them to a charity shop.

Now don't get me wrong.
I wouldn't go and buy a leather jacket or fur coat because it is someones rubbish, I would feel very uncomfortable doing that, but a wee collar for my pup? (99p!!! Never been used!!) or a cushion for my soon to be built sofa? (75p!!!)no. Im not going to feel torn over these.

The charity shop is a win win.
I get to buy items I need (also brought some Xmas pressies for people today!)at prices I can afford. I not only make a donation to charity BUT I also keep unwanted goods out of landfills.
Also, in the case of books, movies, CD's etc I often take them back a few weeks later, so the charity shop gets to sell them again.

You need to pick your battles for how you live.
I would love to buy all our clothes and shoes from ethical, fairtrade shops but honestly can't.
At least by buying clothes from Charity shops I am re-using something someone didn;t want AND I am NOT buying first hand cheap made-in-a-sweatshop clothing.

Pick your battles, draw your lines, live your life.

Monday 30 November 2009

Power Off Weekend. 11th-13th December


Our friends over at the Touchwood Project are hosting a power off weekend.
Basically you turn your electric off at the mains for the weekend and see how you cope. Apart from the "blitz" spirit eating by candle light should inspire I think its a fantastic way to re-asses our living habits.
After all ANYONE can live without power for 48 hrs. But how would you manage with no power...ever?

Take a look around you and make a mental list of everything electric in your home. Cooker? Washing machine? Lights? Central heating? Even your phone, if its cordless, will be reliant on electricity. What would you do if the power went away tomorrow?

To tell you the truth I feel a little like this isn't a HUGE challenge for us at the (almost) car-less family (although its plenty thank you!). After all we have the log burner. It cooks and heats and makes hot water for us, all without a bit of electric to it. That's three more essentials we will have that a mostly electric run house won't.
Yesterday I felt bad, almost like we would be "cheating", but then I decided, no. Its not cheating, its showing others that we are already prepared, that even though it would be a bit of a pain when it came to doing the laundry we COULD do it, and in warm water too.
Our lovely log burner, not as posh as an Aga but still does the job!

We had been discussing whether to bite the bullet and get radiators in the house, the extension especially being very cold, but of course, even though we have the hot water to run through the radiators, we would need an electric pump to push the water there. Would this then complicate our so far simple heating system?

In actual fact we had already pretty much decided against this and are now looking into more passive solutions, like trombe walls, shutters and more insulation.

You can find out more about Power off weekend HERE and join their Facebook event HERE .

So I hope you join us in turning your power off at 11pm 11th December and leaving it off until the 13th December 11pm. You have 12 days to plan for it, imagine what would happen if you had no warning? Enjoy the chance to re-think your life!

Tuesday 24 November 2009

Shhh..time to talk about the "X" word!



Do you know what the date is today?
Its the 24th of November which means..this time next month it will be XMAS (or Christmas/yule/whatever).

AH..tis the season to be jolly, spend loads of money, eat too much food blah blah.

By its very nature a modern Xmas can be a minefield for those of us who are trying to be green.
After all, its become an annual orgy of consumerisation, a glutton fest, a holiday that has lost any religious or seasonal meaning and is now only about how much money you can spend to keep up with the Jones's.

As you can imagine, we here at the (almost)car-less family do our best to shun the the money pit part of the holiday and as the clock is now ticking I thought now would be a good time to share a little of our green Xmas ideas and tips.

Presents
What would Xmas be without gifts!
I wouldn't DREAM of suggesting that presents should be forsaken for the sake of the planet!!
One thing we have learnt as an extended family is to ASK what people would like. After all who wants to receive ANOTHER basket of potpourri or novelty socks. Making sure everyone gets something they really want means there is less waste in the bin come new year.
Children especially can end up with huge swathes of junk.
Its easy to get carried away and try to bulk things up with lots of very cheap plastic toys.
I lost count of the amount of cheap presents the kids where given that where broken by lunch.
Now we try and work out three or four gifts they are really interested in and that are well made, then we ask Grandparents and aunts/uncles to contribute.
Also, never underestimate the impact of a homemade gift.
Anyone who can draw, write a poem, craft in wood or sew can easily make small tokens of affection for loved ones.

Tree
Oooh what a topic to divide people!
This is a toughie, there is no right or wrong answer, rather it depends on where you live.
If you live in a hot country where the traditional pine tree is not available then you need a fake tree. Although a fake tree uses carbon to make and is often made of plastic, you should theoretically never have to buy another tree again, so a couple of years down the line you should be into negative carbon!
If you love the atmosphere of a real tree in your home for Xmas then you could consider a potted tree you can either plant out or re-use.
In my opinion it is better to plant this tree out rather than try to use it again, trees are not meant to be kept in pots and you will be lucky to get 2 years out of it.
If you don't have the room to plant a tree out in your garden why not buy a cut tree and then sponsor a tree to be planted in a park or even in another country. This way you are replacing what you have cut down and also helping to grow important trees. Try somewhere like Sponsor trees to find out more.
Of course you could go all modern and forgo the tree all together, instead you could use a large fallen branch in a pot and decorated with lights to add a Xmasy atmosphere.

Food
The original Xmas dinner was a midwinter feast where the biggest and best of the food was consumed as an olden day cure for the winter blues, something to look forwards to as the wind and snow howled around the hut, it traditionally marked the shortest day of the year (21st December) and so let people look forwards towards the spring.
Although we no longer have to sleep above the animals in the byre nor save logs and potato's for the winter least we starve, we still love the marker that tells us we are are halfway there and still celebrate with a feast.
As vegan's we will not be eating the traditional meat dish but instead will have a vegetable and nut pie with all the trimnmings.
If you are a meat eater you can still enjoy ethical meat.
There are two routes you can go down.
Smallholders often sell surplus meat and this is often the most ethically farmed.
The preferable choice however, I feel, is wild shot game.
Venison or pheasant wild shot is the kindest meat.
The animal is reared in the wild as nature intended and a good marksman can shoot to kill, so the animal knows nothing of his impending death and the natural predator/prey balance is maintained.
Be warned though. The rising popularity of game means that it is readily available in supermarkets BUT this is not often wild shot, deer can be farmed and the same as cows and so you end up with the same welfare and environmental concerns.
For a change why not try some vegetarian choices for one or more of the meals over the festive season. Ideas can be found HERE and HERE to start you off.
Also, remember, where food is concerned go for quality not quantity. The average person puts on 7-10 lb of weight over the festive season, show a little restraint for your waist line and for the planet!

Waste
There will be some waste over Xmas. What is important is how you deal with it.
When presents start being opened make sure there is a bag or box set aside for paper suitable for re-cycling. Remove sellotape and avoid paper with foil and other non-paper embossing as they cannot be re-cycled. Of course you could make your own wrapping paper with colourful magazine pages and tie the parcels up with string, then you can re-clain the string to use again!
Cardboard can be re-cycled as well.
Anyone with kids will understand that most toys come with twist ties. Keep these and you can use them in your kitchen (for twist sealing bags for example) or in the garden later on.
Plastic containers that toys sometimes rest in can be kept for junk modeling or for using as paint pallets.

Food scraps can be divided into compostables and dog food (if you have a dog!). To be honest I compost nearly everything but if you have left overs like dairy and meat/bones you should dispose of these in your household waste to avoid rats showing an interest in your compost heap! Another reason to cut back on animal products!

If you plan your meals well you should have little in the way of left overs, but if you do try to use them wisely.
Roast veg makes beautiful boxing day soup, stir in a little of that left over cranberry sauce and you have all the taste of Xmas without the heavy meal in your belly!

With a little thought you can have a magical and enjoyable holiday without the guilt of consumerism sitting on your shoulders.

How about sharing some of your tips with us!

Sunday 22 November 2009

What did YOU do to save the planet today?


Like many of you in blog land, we here at the (almost)car-less family, are trying to do out bit for the planet.
Now unlike some eco-warriors (or worriers for the less go getting people out there)I don't believe the answer is to give up all our possessions and go live in a mud hut in the woods.
For a start the woods would end up awful crowded and most people would get pretty fed up pretty quickly of washing their clothes in the babbling brook, especially if there are ten other families lined up behind them waiting THEIR turn.

No. I think Pandora's box has not only been opened, but tipped upside down and shook till its hinges rattled.
Lets face it. We like our fridges and tumble driers. our stereos and computers, our washing machines and dishwashers.
They may not be essentials in a live or die way, but they DO make life a hell of a lot easier, especially for the elderly and infirm, the busy mother or the avid volunteer, people who have a desire or indeed NEED for these time saving options.

Technology is making these appliances greener all the time and new gadgets, like the Solar monkey, mean that you can charge your small goods for free.

Inroads are being made into greener energy and I personally feel that so long as scientists are funded and encouraged to come up with these carbon neutral ideas, we will have a chance of living on earth for a little longer than we have in thought in the last few years.

But none of these statements means I feel its ok to sit on your laurels and wait for the magic button to appear.
At the moment we have a duty to do all we can within our household to cut back on carbon.

Re-cycling, turning appliances off instead of leaving them on standby, using lower settings on central heating, these have been drummed into us so much that they are now almost second nature.

So how can we think outside the box?

Our own plan would ideally see us coming off grid. Providing our own energy requirements in a sustainable way.
At the moment this isn't practical.
I have my doubts as to how much energy we would get out of solar panels living here in Scotland. As we approach the shortest day it is already dark by 4pm most nights and the sun doesn't come up until nearly 8am.
Wind power seems like a good idea, we do get plenty of wind, but living at the base of a mountain with hills surrounding us means that the flow of wind over the blades of a propeller would be too erratic to work well.

Without being able to throw money at projects that are likely to yield little we have to find ways of reducing our carbon with the tools we have.

One of our long term projects is the renovation of the flimsy 1960's extension on our house. (this picture is not our house *sigh*)

It has a leaky flat roof and amazingly thin walls. The plan is to try and replace the roof with a turf one, thereby insulating to a much higher degree and encouraging more bees and other insects by scattering wild flower seeds up there.
Our solution to the cold walls is to add an external glass corridor. By using reclaimed double glazing units we can encase the outside of the extension in glass like a wrap around conservatory. This means that not only will we get heat from the sun (the extension is roughly south facing) to warm the house but that we will also have extra green house space to grow early plants in!
We shall probably add vents in the walls to use it like a trombe wall, allowing warm air to enter and then push cold air out.

But this is a long term thing. We still have a few windows to re-claim form places like freecycle, not to mention finding roofing sheets and timber.
In the meantime I am doing my best to keep electricity to a minimum.

My two main contributions today have been...

Versatile heating.
By having the log burner lit this morning I have managed to a) Heat the house (via open doors, we have no other heating) b) heat the hot water and c) Cook all our meals. My aim is to cook as many meals on the log burner as possible when it is lit so that I can save using the electric cooker. Seriously though, the log burner cooks stuff much better, although, obviously, I can't bake on it. SO for the price of one appliance running (ie stuffing the fire with wood) I have the use of three.

Bath time washing.
We have 3 kids...no, we have 3 BOYS.
Boys=mud=lots of washing.
Recently I have started saving washing for after someone has had a bath (shared water of course ;)).
After the bath has been vacated, I tip the dirty clothes into the bath water and then hoick up my trouser legs and stamp on it all for a good five minutes like a grape crusher.

Then I leave the clothes in over night to soak.
In the morning I pick out enough clothes to go in the washing machine, if they are dark or only lightly soiled I put them on a cool rinse and spin cycle rather than a wash. If they are light or dirtier I put them on the 30 minutes quick wash at 30oC. This saves a heap in time, water heated (by electricity)and laundry liquid.
The main point is its the SOAKING that gets your clothes clean, a quick rinse and spin is all most need, not even a real wash cycle. The soaking shifts the dirt and the rinse and spin get rid of it!

So that's us at the moment.
Saving the planets one wash cycle at a time.

take a moment to leave a comment and let us know what YOU did to save the planet today!


Friday 20 November 2009

This Vegan life.

Our Veganism is mentioned a lot through this blog, but I have never really written a whole post about it.
I thought I would rectify this and also use it as a good basic introduction to what the path we follow means.

The word vegan was coined in 1944 by Donald Watson, who combined the first three and last two letters of vegetarian to form "vegan," which he saw as "the beginning and end of vegetarian."(@wikipedia)

The definition of a vegan (in simple terms) is one who lives their life as free as possible from exploitation or cruelty to animals in food, clothing and entertainment.

So a vegan is a person who will not eat meat (inc fish and poultry), dairy, eggs, animal by products (ie gelatin, lanolin, rennet, whey, casein, beeswax, isinglass, and shellac.)and honey. They will also not wear leather, fur, silk or wool.
By this list I could not call myself a card carrying vegan, but I'm working towards it!

By going through the list I can explain why an item is not acceptable and if I use it explain why.

Meat
An easy one and the first off many would be vegetarians lists. The modern meat industry has changed in all recognition in the last 50 years. Animals have been bred for factory style environments and for quickness in growth. A modern pig would have a very hard time trying to live in the wild. His bristles have been bred out to nearly nil, his skin is as pink as a humans, his immune system compromised with a diet that from birth consisted of huge amounts of anti-biotics and other medicine.
Welfare aside this is not something I would wish in my body.

Slaughter houses have also changed. Due to red tape, all the small family run abattoirs where an animal could expect a kind hand and a dignified dispatch have gone, instead they are throw in one factory door, processed as quickly as possible by unskilled, underpaid slaughter men and thrown out the other end as meat.
The hygiene in many of these places is deplorable and ecoli (which comes from animal poop)is mostly found in meat.
So in a burger you have a genetically modified, highly medicated, highly traumatised piece of meat which if your very lucky won't have shit on it.

yum.

You can find out more about factory farming HERE .

Fish also have feelings.
Fish was the last meat I gave up, about 18 months ago now. We treat fish and other sea life, as though from another planet, devoid of feelings and living only on instinct, but research has shown that many fish have maternal instincts, family bonds and have even been trained to perform simple tasks in a research environment. Fish have as highly a developed sense of pain as a kitten yet because they are not air breathers they are often over looked. There is many a fish eating "vegetarian" who thinks nothing of putting this to the back of their mind.

Also the factory style of modern fishing is destroying eco-systems, killing other marine life (including air breathers like seals, dolphins and whales). Studies have shown that if restrictions are not in place soon, fish stocks will be depleted within as little as 40 years.
Find out more about fishing HERE .

Dairy.Got milk?
Then you also got anti-biotics, pus and blood as well as clogged arteries and obesity.
You also get to kill a calf as well.
Dairy is the one thing that splits the vegetarians from the vegans. Most serious vegetarians (as in the ones who don't do it for 6 months when they're 14 because its cool to not eat bunnies and stuff) become vegan at some stage.
Once you look into the dairy production industry you see that you are supporting a just as, if not crueler, method of farming as eating meat.

Dairy 101.
To produce milk every mammal must fort produce a baby.
In the "old" days mama cow would have her calf for a couple of weeks then he would go live with the other male calves for a couple of years before becoming stewing steak. Now he is taken within hours. If he is lucky he is shot. If he is unlucky he gets to ride in a transporter truck across Europe until he ends up on a veal farm, where he will live in a a crate in a dark barn until ready to be killed and turned into that most jelly like of pale meats, veal.

Mama cow meanwhile, is left to produce milk.
No kind hands gently milk this new age bovine. Instead she is clamped to metal tubes that suck the milk out of her.

Now, as someone who has had babies and had to use various expressing (well milking!) machines, I can tell you that an electric driven suction tube stuck to your nipple bloody hurts. As a human I can say "Ow" and turn it off for a while.
Mama cow can't, she is sucked dry up to 3 times a day to get as much as possible from her. The prolonged savage suction causes bleeding and infection, this in turn can result in mastitis, a painful infection resulting in blocked milk ducts (a baby animal is designed to "milk" with tongue and lips as well as sucking, when you just have sucking, milk ducts get blocked). This means pus gets into the milk.
To read more about pus levels in milk click HERE. .
Oh and that old chestnut about milk being the best there is for strong bones? Too much milk can actually CAUSE osteoporosis, animal proteins make the body leech calcium out of your bones to regulate your body's PH.
Add to this the fact that no other animal drinks milk past the age of weaning and no animal drinks the milk of another species AND that cows milk is designed for baby cows who grow at a staggeringly faster rate than baby humans and...well..do I need to go on?

EggsThis is the one that means that the vegan society would not accept me as a member (probably).
I have rescue hens and they lay eggs and I eat them.
The eco side of me will not throw away food so we still get to eat omelets and boiled eggs and quiche. However we don't buy eggs, or products with egg in them, and here's why.
In the "old" days eggs (like lamb and chicken and apples for that matter) where a seasonal product.
In the middle of winter, unless you had stockpiled surplus in the summer, you went without eggs.

A hen has finite amount of eggs in her, rather like ovaries in human females. So a Point of lay pullet is in her prime and will lay (once going) nearly every day for a few months, tapering off in the winter as the daylight is less then stopping to moult their feathers. When they start up again she may lay very well to start and then taper off to laying 4 or 5 days out of 7, and so it goes on until she is 4 or 5 and barely laying at all.
The modern factory farmed hen has a short and brutal life.
She is contained in a cage, her beak cut to prevent pecking. She will spend her whole life in a false lit barn, never knowing natural day and night patterns. This way farmers can produce as many eggs in the depths of winter as he can in the summer.
Hens kept like this are commonly dispatched at first moult, sold for pet food or simply left to die when there is no market for their skinny carcases.
Male chicks don't even get a day of life.
Sense would say that all the boys went for meat production but the egg laying and meat breeds are totally different and so male chicks in this case are worthless. The lucky ones are dispatched by gassing, the unlucky ones are thrown alive into bin bags, dumpsters and in some cases high speed grinders, and at less than a day old.
To find out more about battery hens click HERE .

HoneyAh come on!
Honey? Whats wrong with honey? Little fluffy bee's flitting from flower to flower, how can that be cruel?
Some vegans still consume honey but it is still food produced by animals under false conditions and this had led to devastating disease among bees today that is threatening the pollination of a high proportion of our fruits and flowers.
Bee's kept domestically are not allowed to choose their own queen and are prevented from laying pupa in most of the combe. They are also prevented from swarming, the hive version of reproduction.

Swarms used to be so common that every village had a man who would come and take a swarm away, I have lived in the country for nearly 20 years and have never seen a swarm.
A swarm is prevent often by killing the queen bee and replacing her with a new queen. Bees are often killed while hives are being raided for honey and then, after working so hard for their honey, they get to eat glucose for the winter.
Now if honey is good for US I would imagine it is very good for bees, so bees fed on what is basically refined sugar will not be happy healthy bees.
Colony collapse is a disease that has hit beekeepers hard in the last few years and has spread to wild bees.
To find out more about bees click HERE .

Clothing
Now every one knows fur is a bad thing.
Most people know that leather doesn't grow on trees.
But what about silk and wool?
To obtain one gram of woven silk fifteen silkworms are boiled alive in their cocoons. Read about silk production and how it harms children HERE .
Wool is often NOT a by product of the meat industry as many think, in the UK many farmers make no money on wool. Like chickens and cows there are different breeds for different needs, so a sheep that produces good meat won't necessarily have good quality wool.
Sheep have to be sheared, they are bred in such a way as their coat does not shed in the summer like their wild cousins, but in places like Australia where wool production is high, they use a practice called mulesing, where lambs have strips of skin removed from their hind quarters to prevent the wool from growing there and leaving them susceptible to fly strike (where flies lay eggs in dung messed wool and maggots infect the animal). This is done because the sheep are kept in such vast numbers that it would be impossible for a farmer to check them properly. But if this is the case how can they be meeting the sheep's other health needs? Lameness for example, which affect huge numbers of flocks.
To read more about wool production click HERE .

All this suffering to animals, people and the health of consumers can be prevented by going vegan.

So where does this leave the (almost) car-less family?

I still consider us vegan.

We still have some leather in our house, things we brought a few years ago like tack and shoes and belts. The eco bit of me will not throw these items away in a fit of rage, but they will not be replaced and now we buy none leather shoes and synthetic saddles.
We will still eat the eggs from our hens. We don't breed from them or exploit them. They have been given a taste of a life they could never have imagined before and their eggs are only a bonus to having them.
We still have some products in our house that have been tested on animals, but again they will be replaced when used up, with kinder alternatives.
I still use my inhaler when I need to, although undoubtedly animals suffered to test it, but I am getting fitter every day and now only use it a few times a week instead of a few times a day.

Its a scary step to take, veganism.
Take one at a time and don't try to "vegan-ise" your life all at once. It will overwhelm you and you are much more likely to fall at the first hurdle.

Start looking at the back of packets, get into the mindset of understanding what goes into your food, clothes, beauty products and cleaners.
Educate yourself.

If you have the stomach try google searching for images of factory farming and Mulesing in particular.

And remember, I am here, I have done it and I feel great. Ask me anything and I will answer with honesty.

Wednesday 18 November 2009

The benefits circle of hell.


As most of you know we are on benefits, the dole, welfare to our friends over the pond.
I would like, at this point, the reiterate that we do NOT feel bad about this. Kim worked very hard his whole working life and has paid over 35 years of income tax and national insurance so I don't think anyone could accuse him of not "contributing" to the economy.

Its amazing to think it has been a whole YEAR now since he was made redundant and in that year he has been invited to maybe a dozen interviews, had countless letters saying thanks but no thanks and has sent our even more CV's than he can remember. So really no one could accuse him of not TRYING to get a job.

Well it was his 12 month assessment the other week.
The job centre called him in to try and find out why he wasn't working yet, so armed with all the paperwork he had accumulated over the year he set off on the long trek to Aberdeen.

Now, we never expect to be treated like long lost friends at the job centre. Yes we realise that a good amount of their time is taken up with people who have never worked (and probably never will and don't care) but who always seem to have enough money for fags and booze and (openly) drugs, and who do it all in designer street wear.
But you should be able to expect a little civility right?

So the interview opened.
The unsmiling clerk, spends 10 minutes checking up on the computer exactly what Kim has been applying for.
Ok...
"We need you to cast your net a little wider Mr Basford."
"Ok."
"You need to stop setting your sights to high."

stop.

"Setting his sights too high!?"
So applying for work in a warehouse and being a school caretaker is "setting his sights too high?"

Not one of Kim's applications have been for CEO of Texaco or Arch Bishop of Canterbury (can supply own dress).

Ok.

"You also need to be prepared to commute further. You need to apply for more jobs in Aberdeen."
"I don't have a car, so I am limited by public transport."
*Shocked look*
"What do you mean you don't have a car?"
"Well we have a 30 year old petrol land rover but I can't commute in it. My Car blew up and I couldn't afford to fix it or buy a new one."
*Looks at Kim like he blew the car up on purpose*
"Right, public transport..."

Now Aberdeen is 30 miles away. By train and bus you are looking at a minimum of £60 a week in travel. Fine if your on £25'000 per anum, not so hot if your on say £15'000. It becomes a serious chunk of your income.
Kim explained this, he also pointed out that if he took a minimum wage job he would still have to pay full council tax which would mean that as a family we would not be a little worse off but significantly worse off.

"*sniff*, we don't take that into account Mr Basford. You need to be looking at a maximum of 1 and 1/2 hours commuting each way."
"But that would take me as far as Inverness!(80 miles, @ £135 a week..nearly half a low wage. Very ecological.)
"Yes it would."
"I think your being unreasonable. I can't commute that far."
"Well Mr Basford, you should have thought about that before moving to the country."

WHOA!

Is this what it comes down to?
Is he suggesting we sell our house and move into the city?
Does he not take into account that for 8 of the 9 years we have lived here Kim has been in gainful employment?

Wait a sec..how about we tell all the CITY people to move BACK to the city where THEIR jobs are so that their spouses can get low paid "pin money"jobs (ie , jobs they don't NEED, but do because they are bored)THERE and free up jobs in rural areas for ..oh..I dunno..PEOPLE WHO LIVE RURALLY!

I have lived in the country for over 17 years, Kim his whole life! We did not move to our house to "downsize" (ie sell 2 bed flat in city and buy 6 bed country pile) We moved here because despite us both (seperatly) trying to live urban, we both hated it so much we moved back to the country.

We are arriving in a time when only the wealthy are deemed "worthy" to live in the country, because moving to the country is what you do when you have "made it."

Would you uproot your kids from a good school, leave all your friends behind and sell all your animals, forget growing any food of your own, and live in a shitty council flat because you MIGHT get a minimum wage job stacking shelves?

I refuse to bow to that. While we have our house (paid for, so no mortgage) and our veggie garden we have a fighting chance of making our lives better. If we moved to the city we would be a million times worse off.

Our plan is to get off this moral draining merry-go-round, better to be worse off and self employed doing a bit here and there,than to be worse off and living in a crap part of a crap city in a crap job.
Its a scary thought.
Being on benefits is like being a slave.
Yes you get fed and a roof over your head, but they can whip it our from under your feet when ever they feel like it.
They can threaten you into taking the worst possible job by dangling the little money your entitled too under your nose.

Shall we finish the interview?

"You need to get more proactive Mr Basford."
"Yes."
"We think you should spend two days a week going door to door with your CV's iN inverurie."
"I can't afford the train to do that! It would be nearly £25 a week!"
"We don't take that into account Mr Basford."
"So, do have any training available for me?"
"No Mr Basford."
"But I thought you where meant to offer me training?"

"No. You can find some yourself, but you will have to declare it and it may effect your benefits if you work over so many hours."

Ok.

Fuck 'em.

Even a guy in a cardboard box has more freedom than that.

Think of us.

Thursday 12 November 2009

A path less trod.

We have made a lot of life choices in the last few years as a family.

We took the plunge and went vegan, swallowed our fear and brought bikes to cut down on car use, decided to keep our horses barefoot rather than encumber them with heavy metal shoes, threw out dog food and make Jenny homemade vegan food, our choosing to home school after primary school finishes.... And much more.

One of the things I have noticed though is the reactions of people (directly and indirectly) to our choices.

For a long time I was confused about peoples attitude.
After all I thought, this is OUR life, why do you care so much? We never pushed our views on people, never expected special treatment, never judged..and yet......

I've had someone tell me (in a very loud voice) That I couldn't possibly be a vegan because I had chickens. (For the record, the definition of a vegan is one who lives without the exploitation of animals. Seeing as my hens are rescued ex-layers and eggs come no matter what we do, I am comfortable eating their eggs, we don't however eat brought eggs or other products with egg in them.)
I was told that at a village meeting about a community even someone kindly asked if one of the soups would be vegan and was basically told that we couldn;t be expected to be catered for as a minority in the village (although there are 5 of us and my kids make up an a significant amount of the pupils at school).
People practically throw lifts at us because we can't POSSIBLY expect our children to cycle into town (a WHOLE 3 miles!).

The more we break away from what is considered the western "norm" the more I see frightened people.

By being vegan (and being friendly and un-judgmental makes no difference) they feel we are saying "Your diet is wrong. Its un-healthy and un-ethical."
Good friends still wink and nudged Kim and try to get him to eat meat. It makes them feel better to think veganism is a passing fad, a mini madness that causes people of over-sentimentality to deviate from the "correct" path.By choosing to cycle rather than run around in a car they fell we are saying "By using a car you are leading a sedentary and environmentally unsustainable life." They constantly ask when we will be buying a normal car and press lifts into our palms like alms.

By choosing to home school during the secondary years they feel we are questioning the regular pattern of school. We are saying "We care about our children's education and have no faith in the regular path of schools and exams." This is something that makes them question how we could consider taking children out of school. After all we all went there didn't we? We're alright aren't we?

The fear that other people...Other NORMAL seeming people are questioning the regular order of life, the very foundations on which modern civilization is built.... Food, Transport, Education... How can these things be deviated from?

The human animal is just that. An animal with all the instinct and safety in numbers that causes the majority to at best treat you as odd and at worst behave openly hostile to you.
Nothing is more scary than someone who seems to live happily, even thrive by dancing to the beat of a different drum.

The point is some are strong enough to follow their heart others will live their lives scared of being driven from the "herd".

So if your life choices include deciding not to vaccinate, to forgo meat, to live in a roundhouse in the woods, to medicate with herbs, to drop out and walk the earth without a care...do it.

Like the man Say's you only have one life, live it, live it well, live it happy and so long as it harm none then do it with your head held high.

Tuesday 10 November 2009

Can't give up the car? Green your outlook anyway :D

Regular readers will know that although we here at the (almost) car-less family, strive for a life without the car,we also accept that in some instances people (us included) are not fully able to give their car up completely.

For example, we live in a rural area with inconsistent and highly variable public transport. We have children and animals and also like to use Freegle (ex freecycle) a lot.
Do we beat ourselves up about occasional car use?
Hell no!
We're only human, and we have lives to lead, but we do try to stick to a few golden rules that I thought I'd share with you today....




  • Do you REALLY need to take the car out today?Learn to analyse your proposed trip out in the car. Is it really necessary? Can you wait until a day you can use public transport? Can you even do without making the trip at all? The majority of car trips in the UK are UNDER 5 miles!! Easy cycling distance, moderate walking distance.
  • Plan ahead.It sounds so simple doesn't it. But think about how many times a week you run out of bread, cat food, loo roll etc. Work out how much you need of something for a week and then buy one extra.
  • Use your car trip in an industrial way.So you really REALLY need to go out in the car, ok, its life or death right? Well make sure you have other things to do while your out. Before you go out make sure you have all the shopping you need. Is there some DIYing you were going to do? Maybe this is the time to nip to the hardware store to pick up those washers or screws or whatevers. Fill the back of your car with the re-cycling you haven't got round to taking out yet. Better yet, ask a neighbour if they need anything while you are out. That way you are potentially saving TWO car trips, and maybe next time they will ask YOU if you need anything from town.
  • Make your own rules and stick to them.We never..I mean NEVER drive to the local shop. It is 3 miles away. I can cycle to the shop and back within 40 minutes. The only time the car goes near the shop is if we are on the way back from somewhere further afield. If the weather is too bad for me to think about cycling there, I can't have needed the item that badly can I.
  • Re-priorities "emergencies"We tend to treat running out of olives or icing sugar as a family disaster in this current car loving society. So you didn't plan ahead? You will next time right? But in the meantime, change your dinner plan and have pasta WITHOUT olives, leave the icing off the cupcakes. Learn to adapt, learn to be flexible, learn what is really important and stop worrying about the small stuff.
  • Explore other avenues of transport.You need to get some where. If you can't walk you can see if its practical to cycle. If not check out the public transport in your area. If that's no good see if you can get a lift with a friend going in the right direction (com'mon, EVERYONE is in their cars, you must know SOMEONE who is driving your way that day?). If all else fails take your car and re-read point no. 3.
  • DON'T PANIC!! There are ways around everything if you use a little thought. Try and make appointments around your public transport timetables. Get as much delivered as possible. Talk to your friends and neighbours, try and organise lift shares.
  • Don't beat yourself up because you can't afford the new "eco" cars. Its better for an old car to only be driven twice a week than to use an "eco" car so indiscriminately that wheels never stop turning.

Try to look at the thing as a whole.

Use your car as little as possible and its better than using it without thought or care. Before you know it you will have turned around and realised that the car you "couldn't live without" hasn't left your drive for a week.

Good luck and have fun!

Friday 6 November 2009

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This is a sensitive one that I don't want out in blog world.

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A hard week.

Well apologies are due to my regular readers.

What must you think!

No Meatless Monday!

No new posts!

Even limited twitter time.

There where a lot of small and personal niggles this week but the main upset was a parents consultation I had with my youngest two boys teachers on Monday afternoon.

Usually these things follow a set pattern.
The kids are friendly, polite, work well enough when prodded with sharp sticks that sort of thing.

I LIKE their teachers, really I do. I have know the head teacher for the last 6 years and we have been through some challenging times with my eldest with allergies and dyslexia and have always come out the end on the same track and usually laughing.

The consultation was supposed to be about Alfie as this is his first full term as a Primary one pupil.
A quick 10 minutes to let us know how he has settled in.

As we say down we where told that actually they wanted to talk more about Owen (who is P2. The first 3 classes are mixed though, so they are in the same "class")

Immediately we where told that they were worried about how "immature" they both were, how unfocused when working. Owen especially they said had slipped back and wouldn't concentrate on his work and whined that he was still a "little boy" and wanted to play with the P1's.

Apart from a few extra points this was the basic summing up of the meeting.

I can tell you I was broadsided.
As I had to rush home to meet the older kids I had no time to even process what had been said , let alone ask any questions.

Me and Kim briefly talked about it ont he way home, but then kids and other jobs got in the way and I put it to the back of my mind for the evening.

By the morning we where both fuming and I decided to send the headteacher an email asking for another meeting.
Well I can tell you I was in tears as I wrote it. I sobbed as my fingers typed and I saw how unfair they had been to my boys.

Here is the email.



Hi -----,

Yesterdays consultation broadsided me a bit and as I had to get home for Ollie and --------, I didn't really have time to think of any questions to ask you and Mrs ---- .

May I start by saying we have always found you approachable and understanding and I hope this will be the case now.

Firstly, we were disappointed that a consultation for Alfie turned into a meeting about Owen. We felt we came away with very little information on how Alfie is doing apart from the fact you find him "Immature".
If you felt there was cause to talk to use about Owen before his consultation maybe we could have organised a separate meeting?

We also felt that the problems you feel Owen (and Alfie) have are down to immaturity.We fail to see exactly what you mean and found the whole thing to be a little vague, the word immaturity being bandied around rather than a specific problem being discussed.
We don't consider either of them to be immature when interacting with boys in their age group (which they do out of school) and have always considered them to be MORE mature than boys their age in some respects, that is looking after themselves personally (toileting, dressing etc) and emotionally.
The only reason we can think you consider them immature is in comparison to their peers at -------.
However in the case of Owen I feel comparing him to his peers in unfair.
His class is made up entirely of girls, which in the main (and you admitted this yesterday) do better at this age academically and socially. For Owen to be held up against them is a false comparison In our opinion.
I should also point out that all of the girls in his class attend a great deal of after school, weekend and holiday activities, so are in effect in a "school" environment for almost twice the time Owen is.
For one thing we are unable to afford to send our children to every activity available to them and on the other hand we have no wish to as this is not the way we want to bring them up.
You already know my thoughts on not allowing children to have time to themselves and, without getting personal and I trust this will go no further, we have no wish to listen to our children whining and crying and being generally unhappy because they are being bundled into the car yet again to go to yet another after school activity. This is something we hear every day by living close to people who practice this.
In this instance it feels like we are being penalised for not having the money to do these things and also having a different opinion on child raising.

On the subject of Owen falling behind slightly and wishing to be seen as a "little boy" we feel you are being unsympathetic to his feelings in this case.
If you cast your minds back to when he started P1 he was devastated when the P3 boys would not play with him. Yes he eventually played with the girls but lets face it they played with him like a doll most of the time and for most of the year he moaned to us about having to play with the girls.
Is it any surprise that he should be initially excited about --- (another boy) and Alfie starting school?
Is it any surprise that he should then feel unhappy that he isn't able to work with them in class?
You talk about your fear of Alfie catching Owen up and maybe overtaking him academically, well we don't see this as a problem.
Remember there is only 9 months between them, the same as between Oliver and ---- in P5.
Also shouldn't Owen be given the opportunity to develop self impetus by failing? Surely this is better than spending a life time coaxing him to do better?
We find it hard to get upset about something that when the boys are 10 & 11 or 20 & 21 will simply have no relevance.
This was obviously a big concern between you and Mrs ----- though.

In summing up we both felt that the whole consultation came across as very negative.
We understand that when classes are so small any child lagging behind makes a big impact on class performance statistics, but we have no wish for our children to be educated as statistics.
In this case we would like to arrange another meeting with you to discuss what the real issues of immaturity are.
In all honesty if these boys are going to be treated as though "under performing" we will be considering bringing our homeschool plans forwards.

Yours sincerely

---------------------.


I don't think I could write that out again if I tried I was so upset.

That afternoon I received an email from the headteacher apologising profusely. She agreed that immature had been vague and in retrospect really the wrong word to use.

I actually saw her that afternoon as it was open day and we snatched 20 minutes or so talking and she agreed with me that taking the pressure off Owen to "grow up" is fine by them, yes he should be allowed to develop naturally.
In her defence I am in the minority of parents who feel this way, most if the time she is fending off angry parents demanding to know why their 5 yr old children aren't getting as much homework as the kids in another school!

The trouble with these consultations is that they are so short that to try and cram everything in things get lost along the way.

Anyway another meeting is being arranged and hopefully we will get a clearer picture of their concerns and, as parents, we will be able to take the time to discuss them with the teachers.

I have very definite ideas about my children's education.
Although the plan is to let all 3 of them finish primary education I don't want to end up with broken spirited 11 year olds with no love for learning.
On the other hand the small and personal school is a safe and (mostly) nurturing place for them and gives them a chance to make village friends they will keep.

So that is why I have been off this week.

My crying jags and fits of mild depression over whelmed me and made me feel ill.

But I'm back :)

And I have LOTS to post about :D

Sunday 1 November 2009

Time for a change?

I really enjoy blogging.
I love the freedom I have to write what I think, even if I'm the only person who ever reads it. Unlike a diary I don't have to keep it a secret or writ in it every day (dear diary, had toast for breakfast...again). I can add links and write about current affairs and about all the other stuff in my head that seems to have no other place to go.

I love The (almost) car-less family blog but recently things have taken a turn in the road.

And if anyone out there is reading and has an opinion I would love to hear what you think about the evolution of my little blog world.

Personally I think the blog is getting a little crowded and am thinking of starting a second blog, one that leans more towards the vegan/ permaculture side of my life.
I worry that people who turn up wanting an alternative transport blog will be put off by Peta stickers and vegan recipes!

This may make my online life a little schizophrenic but its how I feel at the moment.

What I want to know is if you agree with any (or as many)of the following statements. Please copy and paste onto a comment with any added thoughts of your own...I really want people to get a full on experience when they come here :)

OK.

1. I think the blog is fine as it is.

2. I would prefer a bike only/ vegan only blog.

3. I like the content of both and would visit both blogs.

4. I like some of the content and might visit the other blog when a relevant link is posted.

5. I would like the bike blog to also tackle family issues (home school health etc)

6. I would like the vegan blog to also contain family issues.

7. I have no opinion on any changes to the blog.


I think that what I am leaning towards is posting as relevant in each blog, both carrying home and enviromental issues and sometimes linking to the other blog.

Really want some opinions here!!

xx

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